If you're coming to New York from the outside world, high on your list would have to be the Whitney Biennial, of course, the Duchamp show at the Museum of Modern Art, and then the New Museum, where Rhizome is an affiliate in residence.
Michael Connor, Frieze Week New York: Rhizome, MoMI, Karyn Nakamura
Also at the New Museum and their New Humans exhibition, they had some of the earliest collage work by Hannah Höch, which was sick to see those IRL with the scale and everything.
Evil Biscuit, Evil Biscuit on card nft 2, Destruction & Rebirth